BM, is when the grifter threatens to use revealing, damaging, embarrassing, secretive etc information in order to get money or other kind of cooperation out of the mark. There are many ways to do it, and some are more efficient than others. It's pretty much extortion considering you usually always give a threat of physical action with the threat to reveal said information. Examples of this are, if you can get photos of someone cheating on their wife. You can BM them for money, because there is a low chance they will turn you into the authorities, as they will get found out. If you can do it smartly it won't matter if the authorities get involved.
Getting info & Doxxing Now obviously, the best way to get dirty or unwanted information about the person you would like to BM, is by doing it without them knowing, or setting a trap. And to state the obvious from these forums, we're looking at setting up a keylogger or a RAT. I’m not going to go into a heavy tutorial on Keylogging and Ratting because the book would get too long, but I will give you an overview. A RAT is a remote access Trojan, think of it like Teamviewer apart from the person you are controlling does not know that you are there and there are hundreds of additional features, such as Keylogging, Audio recording, webcam recording, access to all of the files on their computer which you can invisibly download, etc.
There are plenty of resources on Hackforums which can help you to set up & crypt your rat, once this is done, you can bind your server with an image and include that in the .zip file of images you send your mark.
If, like a lot of people, you don’t want to get into ratting – that’s perfectly fine. We can get incriminating evidence in other ways.
1. Find out their email: You need their email address, the best way to achieve this is to tell them your Skype/MSN/AIM is fucked and you’ll have to email them the photos. If you want to BM them, then don’t accept the first address they give you – tell them the mail is just getting returned to you undelivered and ask if they have another address. If they hand over another one, that’s one more email to dox. Try www. pipl.com and - is useful for looking up usernmes – check it out. There is some good doxing software available around the internet too. Don’t fall for infected links though.
2. After you have their email, finish your initial transaction. If it’s PayPal, you have their full name. Afterwards, ask for a picture of them. This picture will be used to help you find them on Facebook/MySpace. If their profile does not have appropriate privacy settings, you are laughing. Write down the names of his close friends and family. If he has his shields up, add him as a friend with a fake Facebook profile. Often people list their jobs on their profile, it only takes one email to get them fired with the evidence you have.
If you have managed to get them to email you, you can take the IP from their email and run it through . This will confirm where they are, in case they say they are from the opposite side of the word.
A good way to find out if the pictures they are sending you are fake or not, is to head over to A relatively new feature has been implemented that lets you drag and drop a picture from your computer into the search bar. Google will then cross reference the picture with the google images index. This will show you any identical or very similar pictures and 8 times out of 10 will tell you if they are sending a fake picture.
Sending a small amount of money to their PayPal email, from your fake PayPal will also provide you with a sizable amount of information such as full name and address.
Once you have your BM material: You have to be prepared to show them no mercy. Don't rush into BMing them with the newly found information. Maybe you not only found some information, but a weakness. BINGO. Prey on it, plan it well. Don't be afraid to let them know, without giving up too much. Don't be too threatening, and don't use something barely incriminating, or they're not going to take you seriously, or they will just go to the police. Adding them with a fake Facebook account can be profitable, as you can see if they are in a relationship, as well as who their close friends are. You will be surprised what you can learn after looking at someone’s Facebook for 10 minutes, this will then give you vulnerabilities you can exploit with BM. Try to reference something personal that they are keeping secret in the first contact, but please for the love of god don't spill all the beans. You aren't just dangling a hook in front of them to take, because fish occasionally get away from the hook. You're danging a lure, with multiple hooks, and you want all of them as deep as possible. The more damage the more reward. On another note, keep it short and simple, don't get strung out on the bloke, because he doesn't want to read a diary of what he did for the last week, that’s just weird too. Of course you haven't made any demands yet. Leave that for later once they know they are screwed, plus demands just scare them off, and we don't want to do that either. When it comes to demands, you have to be able to gauge a few things.
1. How much money can this guy afford to pay?
2. How much is this information not getting out worth?
3. How carefully have I anoynamised myself
After you have considered all of the above, you need to put down a price. Sometimes it’s a good idea to ask them how much the info is worth to them, if they come out with $100 then you know that you can say $150 and be fine. Don’t charge too high a price, because if paying you means that they can’t pay their bills at the end of the month then they might just go to the police.
When you go for the kill, you need to clearly explain the seriousness of their current predicament. Here is an example so you can see the kind of thing that works:
So, your name is “name” and you are “age” - your email address is “email” and you have girlfriend called “name”. What would she say if 1. I sent her a FB message with these chat logs and 2. I told the police all about what went on here and how you, knowing that I was under age accepted naked pictures and videos of me and 3. Had you put on the sex offenders register for life? I could have you arrested and sent to prison, I have the evidence right here. Just for good measure I might publish these logs and the sensitive pictures I received of you to as many of your friends as I can.. such as “names”. I am ready to release this right now. The only way you can make this all go away is to send $200 to “whatever your preferred payment method is”. If you block me or ignore me then I’m going to start socialising with your soon to be ex-friends. Oh, and one more thing – you were kind enough to list your place of work on your Facebook page.. One email to them with these logs and pictures
and your life is over. There’s nothing you can do to prevent this, just accept that you have to pay me. I’ll be gone forever as soon as I receive payment.
Two more BM letters ( they are public - not written by me, but pretty much the same as mine)
BM Note #1
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You do realize you are [slave AGE] and you're name is [NAME] and I am [WHORE AGE, UNDER 18]. This will count as pedophilia in [slave STATE]. By simply sending these chat logs and videos to the police/cops/feds I could have you arrested and sent to prison for 10+ years easily and have you permanently put on the sex offenders registry. I could also contact your friends like [FRIEND], [FRIEND], [FRIEND], [FAMILY MEMBER], [FAMILY MEMBER], [FAMILY MEMBER], and a lot more with these logs and the video I recorded of you on cam. How do you think they would react?!
If you send me [HOW MANY]x $[HOW MUCH] [METHOD OF PAYMENT, (I prefer Amazon Gift Cards)] to [WHORE EMAIL], I will erase everything and all will be forgotten. I'm giving you 30 seconds to respond. If you don't respond within the next 30 seconds, all of your friends will know about this and it will be all over [SOCIAL NETWORK]. If you log off or block me, I'll do all of this immediately. The choice is yours.
BM Note #2
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Hello, my name is [WHORE NAME] and yours is [slave NAME]. Through our [TIME LENGTH] of chatting, I have figured out your [DOX INFO 1], [DOX INFO 2], [DOX INFO 3], etc. I have also talked to a few of your friends. I have lots of information about you, but there's something I need to tell you about myself. I am part of an agency preventing pedophilia on the internet. I'm actually [WHORE AGE, UNDER 18] and I belong to [MADE UP ORGANIZATION] against pedophilia. Through our time chatting, I have gathered all of your information, which you can see attached to this email. All of the videos I have gathered from your cam and all of the photos I have sent will be turned into the [slave LOCATION] police and also be sent to your friends. The only way to stop this is if you follow my demands. I would like [AMOUNT OF MONEY] sent to [WHORE EMAIL]'s [FORM OF PAYMENT, (again I recommend amazon because it can't be charged back.)]
I hope this financial loss teaches you something about pedophilia on the internet, and not everyone is who they say they are.
Getting info & Doxxing Now obviously, the best way to get dirty or unwanted information about the person you would like to BM, is by doing it without them knowing, or setting a trap. And to state the obvious from these forums, we're looking at setting up a keylogger or a RAT. I’m not going to go into a heavy tutorial on Keylogging and Ratting because the book would get too long, but I will give you an overview. A RAT is a remote access Trojan, think of it like Teamviewer apart from the person you are controlling does not know that you are there and there are hundreds of additional features, such as Keylogging, Audio recording, webcam recording, access to all of the files on their computer which you can invisibly download, etc.
There are plenty of resources on Hackforums which can help you to set up & crypt your rat, once this is done, you can bind your server with an image and include that in the .zip file of images you send your mark.
If, like a lot of people, you don’t want to get into ratting – that’s perfectly fine. We can get incriminating evidence in other ways.
1. Find out their email: You need their email address, the best way to achieve this is to tell them your Skype/MSN/AIM is fucked and you’ll have to email them the photos. If you want to BM them, then don’t accept the first address they give you – tell them the mail is just getting returned to you undelivered and ask if they have another address. If they hand over another one, that’s one more email to dox. Try www. pipl.com and - is useful for looking up usernmes – check it out. There is some good doxing software available around the internet too. Don’t fall for infected links though.
2. After you have their email, finish your initial transaction. If it’s PayPal, you have their full name. Afterwards, ask for a picture of them. This picture will be used to help you find them on Facebook/MySpace. If their profile does not have appropriate privacy settings, you are laughing. Write down the names of his close friends and family. If he has his shields up, add him as a friend with a fake Facebook profile. Often people list their jobs on their profile, it only takes one email to get them fired with the evidence you have.
If you have managed to get them to email you, you can take the IP from their email and run it through . This will confirm where they are, in case they say they are from the opposite side of the word.
A good way to find out if the pictures they are sending you are fake or not, is to head over to A relatively new feature has been implemented that lets you drag and drop a picture from your computer into the search bar. Google will then cross reference the picture with the google images index. This will show you any identical or very similar pictures and 8 times out of 10 will tell you if they are sending a fake picture.
Sending a small amount of money to their PayPal email, from your fake PayPal will also provide you with a sizable amount of information such as full name and address.
Once you have your BM material: You have to be prepared to show them no mercy. Don't rush into BMing them with the newly found information. Maybe you not only found some information, but a weakness. BINGO. Prey on it, plan it well. Don't be afraid to let them know, without giving up too much. Don't be too threatening, and don't use something barely incriminating, or they're not going to take you seriously, or they will just go to the police. Adding them with a fake Facebook account can be profitable, as you can see if they are in a relationship, as well as who their close friends are. You will be surprised what you can learn after looking at someone’s Facebook for 10 minutes, this will then give you vulnerabilities you can exploit with BM. Try to reference something personal that they are keeping secret in the first contact, but please for the love of god don't spill all the beans. You aren't just dangling a hook in front of them to take, because fish occasionally get away from the hook. You're danging a lure, with multiple hooks, and you want all of them as deep as possible. The more damage the more reward. On another note, keep it short and simple, don't get strung out on the bloke, because he doesn't want to read a diary of what he did for the last week, that’s just weird too. Of course you haven't made any demands yet. Leave that for later once they know they are screwed, plus demands just scare them off, and we don't want to do that either. When it comes to demands, you have to be able to gauge a few things.
1. How much money can this guy afford to pay?
2. How much is this information not getting out worth?
3. How carefully have I anoynamised myself
After you have considered all of the above, you need to put down a price. Sometimes it’s a good idea to ask them how much the info is worth to them, if they come out with $100 then you know that you can say $150 and be fine. Don’t charge too high a price, because if paying you means that they can’t pay their bills at the end of the month then they might just go to the police.
When you go for the kill, you need to clearly explain the seriousness of their current predicament. Here is an example so you can see the kind of thing that works:
So, your name is “name” and you are “age” - your email address is “email” and you have girlfriend called “name”. What would she say if 1. I sent her a FB message with these chat logs and 2. I told the police all about what went on here and how you, knowing that I was under age accepted naked pictures and videos of me and 3. Had you put on the sex offenders register for life? I could have you arrested and sent to prison, I have the evidence right here. Just for good measure I might publish these logs and the sensitive pictures I received of you to as many of your friends as I can.. such as “names”. I am ready to release this right now. The only way you can make this all go away is to send $200 to “whatever your preferred payment method is”. If you block me or ignore me then I’m going to start socialising with your soon to be ex-friends. Oh, and one more thing – you were kind enough to list your place of work on your Facebook page.. One email to them with these logs and pictures
and your life is over. There’s nothing you can do to prevent this, just accept that you have to pay me. I’ll be gone forever as soon as I receive payment.
Two more BM letters ( they are public - not written by me, but pretty much the same as mine)
BM Note #1
-----------------------------
You do realize you are [slave AGE] and you're name is [NAME] and I am [WHORE AGE, UNDER 18]. This will count as pedophilia in [slave STATE]. By simply sending these chat logs and videos to the police/cops/feds I could have you arrested and sent to prison for 10+ years easily and have you permanently put on the sex offenders registry. I could also contact your friends like [FRIEND], [FRIEND], [FRIEND], [FAMILY MEMBER], [FAMILY MEMBER], [FAMILY MEMBER], and a lot more with these logs and the video I recorded of you on cam. How do you think they would react?!
BM Note #2
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Hello, my name is [WHORE NAME] and yours is [slave NAME]. Through our [TIME LENGTH] of chatting, I have figured out your [DOX INFO 1], [DOX INFO 2], [DOX INFO 3], etc. I have also talked to a few of your friends. I have lots of information about you, but there's something I need to tell you about myself. I am part of an agency preventing pedophilia on the internet. I'm actually [WHORE AGE, UNDER 18] and I belong to [MADE UP ORGANIZATION] against pedophilia. Through our time chatting, I have gathered all of your information, which you can see attached to this email. All of the videos I have gathered from your cam and all of the photos I have sent will be turned into the [slave LOCATION] police and also be sent to your friends. The only way to stop this is if you follow my demands. I would like [AMOUNT OF MONEY] sent to [WHORE EMAIL]'s [FORM OF PAYMENT, (again I recommend amazon because it can't be charged back.)]
I hope this financial loss teaches you something about pedophilia on the internet, and not everyone is who they say they are.